We live in a deeply sex- and kink-negative culture, and our first reaction when a partner discloses a kink is often a knee-jerk negative reaction to the idea of kinks at all. Since we'll never know what caused him to have this particular kink — kinks really are mysteries — let's just run with that: He thinks this is hot — or his dick thinks this is hot — because guys like you aren't supposed to have painted toenails, and guys like him aren't supposed to paint toenails, FOOTPERV, and this small transgression against gender norms makes his dick hard because it does.

And if you really hate it, FOOTPERV, if it freaks you out to have polished toenails — or if your masculinity is really so fragile it shatters under the weight of toenail polish — then you don't have to do it again. Enjoy the largest amateur porn community on the net as well as full-length scenes from the top XXX studios. I'm a 37-year-old female who, almost three years ago, got out of a six-year toxic, violent relationship with a man I believe I loved. If nothing else is going on — if you aren't on meds for depression or anxiety, if you've had your hormone levels checked and they're normal, if a new form of birth control isn't cratering your libido — then the most obvious and likeliest answer is probably the correct one: Three years after getting out of an abusive relationship, JAG, you're still reeling from the trauma.

I'm pretty vanilla and not into it, but I know kinks are a thing for a lot of guys and I'm willing to help out a good guy. Screenshots, stories, problem-solving, feature requests, profile reviews, rants, memes, advice, and more.

I know there's no explanation for why people have kinks but do you have any ideas what this is about? It started as a hookup, but we have chemistry on several levels and, without either of us having to say it, we started seeing each other regularly. Honestly I was thinking about this long time ago but now I am pretty much sure that I will try to sell my pics on Feetfinder etc.

So smoke a little pot, put your feet on the nice man's lap, and try to take pleasure in the pleasure you're giving. PARENTS, PLEASE BE ADVISED: If you are a parent, it is your responsibility to keep any age-restricted content from being displayed to your children or wards. A year ago, I went out on a couple of dates with a man younger than me, he was cute and very interested in me, but I just didn't feel the connection. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, and author, and has appeared on numerous television shows.